Dogs grieve too
The first dog my husband and I fostered, Simon, quickly became part of the family. We originally thought he had to put on a bit of weight, but we soon found out that it he was not just a skinny dog, he had cancer and little time left. Everest, our dog, immediately became protective of him. When the time came to say goodbye to Simon, I knew that Everest would be impacted by the loss of this gentle canine companion, so we gave him the opportunity to say goodbye. I truly believe that this helped Everest cope with his loss.
Yes, dogs grieve. They can grieve the loss of a canine, feline and human companion.
I recently lost my closest friend, Krista. She and her husband adopted Everest’s sister 4 years ago. During Krista’s illness, Dakota (that’s the dog) was especially gentle, patient, kind and loving. Normally active and sometimes even Hyper Active!, Dakota could sit quietly next to my friend for hours to provide a dependable source of comfort and support.
I know that Dakota is grieving too.
So, how do you know if your dog is grieving? When a dog loses a family member or another canine companion, they may show you they are grieving by:
- losing interest in their favourite activities
- sleeping more than usual
- losing their appetite
- becoming disoriented
- becoming more clingy
- sitting by the window or door, waiting for the person’s return
- vocalizing more than usual
- becoming more quiet
- exhibiting behavioral changes
What can we do, to help a dog grieve a loss?
- Scent is very important to dogs. Keeping an item that smells of the departed can bring some comfort.
- Exercise can help. Take your dog for a long walk. It can help both of you.
- Road trips. Going somewhere? Why not take your dog with you if you can.
If you are grieving, dogs can be a great source of comfort. Just be careful not to use them as a shoulder to cry on. They need you, more than ever, to be a confident leader of the home.

All of us used the $2 vouchers to bid on horses. I bid on First Avenue and was so excited when he won! Wow, I won $2.80. We also had $5 voucher to play the slots, which I did not use. After a great evening, too much food, I was ready to retire to a quieter environment. I was happy to be Going Home to the Dogs.